How to Love Your Wife- The Lost Art Of Romance

In this day and age romance is a thing of the past. Everything these days has to be fast. You know fast food, 1 hour photo processing, drive though banking, drive through pharmacy, microwaves, instant everything, and premade this or that just heat and serve.

What’s next drive through sex in your marriages? You almost have that now, ever heard of cybersex. This is really nothing but a colorful name for masturbation.

In the area of love and relationships it’s just Wham Bam Thank You Mam. Just Get it n go.

They kiss a couple minutes, start having sex in 3 or 4 minutes they blow and go and back to business as usual.

There are no sweet words exchanged, no foreplay, no lovin, touchin, squeezin. They should spend at least an hour on foreplay alone. The older one gets the more valuable and pleasurable foreplay becomes. As we get older we move into a position where we don’t have to keep looking out the window in the back seat to see if the cops are coming.

People, hey knock knock, we need to bring romance back into our relationships and marriages. This could keep so many of those dead marriages alive.

Married people on the other hand could have what is known as quickies.

They have quick little sex session’s before work and give each other a quick orgasm to last until they get home, its suppose to send them off to work with a smile.

No one wants a marriage like Al and Peg Bundy. That’s just a sick joke and slap in the face to real marriages. Yes the show was cute, but it wouldn’t be in real life. And there are many real life marriages out there like that and these people are miserable, and many wind up cheating on each other, and along with cheating comes lying.

Start doing unexpected things for your wife. If she doesn’t appreciate it or respond with love in return then she has serious issues likewise for the husband too.

Buy your girlfriend or wife a surprise gift, right out of the blue, when it’s not a special occasion and they are not expecting it. No to all you tight wads it doesn’t have to be expensive. It’s the thought that counts, but don’t be too cheap theres no love in that either.

Gifts for no reason at all spells ROMANCE and ATTRACTION, at least for normal women it does. I’ve had some women that were thrilled an ecstatic every time I wrote them a poem or gave them a card, many times I made them a card.

Its always good to take your woman to a classy restaurant with a dark corner and candles and fine wine.

But on the other side of the coin, cook her a nice meal, NO not burger and fries, make her a real meal, open some wine, light some sexy smelling candles, turn the music down low.

Have her a warm bubble bath drawn when she comes home with a glass of wine tub side so she can unwind in style, who knows you may get invited to join her.

A man and woman cuddling in a warm sudsy bath is a romantic and relaxing way to show and share your love. Get some of those relaxing music CDs that they play when you get a massage, guaranteed to sooth the savage beast.

Be spontaneous; take a long late night drive to no where. This holds mystery and excitement to see where you will wind up next. Will it be the next county and a starry lake, or a drive down a dark country road, will you see mountains or might you hear the rumble of ocean waves around the next bend.

This is a mystery ride because you have no destination, no place to be, you just wind up where you wind up. And these rides make wonderful quality time to have serious in depth heart to heart talks, it’s a great time together, and since its late all the people of the world are in bed and you have the whole road to yourself

A drive is so peaceful when all the rat race noise makers, horn honkers, subwoofer freaks and speed demons have gone to bed. You can enjoy your ride together without having somebody riding your bumper trying to push you out of the way. It’s a wonderful experience and a great time to make future plans together.

Do something different park at the lake look up at the stars, hug and kiss, play with each other, make love in the car, this is your time, enjoy it, no rush no fuss.

Be mysterious do the unexpected, speak out I love you’s just because you do not because you have to. Send I love you text messages while she’s at work and things you want to do to her.

Send her sexy texts while she cooks dinner and you’re in the other room, or anytime she’s in a different part of the house, send sweet messages. This oozes romance and love. Romance is not all about roses, cards and candy, that’s TV romance.

There’s nothing wrong with it, it’s all good, but there’s so much more to it than that. There’s so many other ways to romance your woman, the sky and your imagination’s the limit.

Strategically place little love notes around the house for her to find from time to time, like in her panty drawer, pocket book or make up case. Don’t do it so often that it looses its charm, but do it from time to time, as you feel it in your heart. These are romantic little reminders to her heart that her husband still loves her and was thinking about her enough to take his time and do these nice things to make her day and give her a smile.

Start fore playing your wife anywhere and everywhere when she least expects it. Don’t be predictable, but be unexpected. Come up behind her while she cooks dinner, cup her boobs, kiss her neck, and lick her ears.

She likes to know she can still turn you on enough for you to want to turn her on. This kitchen kissing will be a totally unexpected surprise for her.

Rub over her body as she stands stirring the beans, Rub her bottom end as she looks in the oven.

Put your hand down the back of her pants and give a rub to her tub.. Hug her from behind holding her breast, tweak her nipples as you kiss her on the neck whispering I love you, then as quickly and as silently as you came you leave.

And that you just you are leaving those thoughts in her mind.

This is a loving and an unexpected romantic pleasure a husband can do for his wife anytime most anywhere and any way his mind and heart chooses to bless her. And likewise the wife can do the same for her husband.

This is more like what a man would do for his women in the beginning of a relationship, so keep it alive always revive, 10 years later you still need that loving spark of spice and romance. Remember a spark can make a blaze. Our bodies may grow old but the person inside is not, they still have the same loves, desires and needs.

Don’t ever refuse your wife sex because to do so is unbiblical. The bible says do not withhold sex from your spouse, because it already belongs to them. When two people are married they become one and you own each others bodies and the right to the sex belongs to you too.

So no fake headaches and no back ache excuses, I’m tired is not a valid excuse. I don’t want to is not a valid excuse. When the wife or husband wants what is theirs you give it.

So never refuse your wife sex, if don’t have an erection then use your other tool. Your wife’s satisfaction is just in an inch under your nose. So give her some pleasure and feed her rose.

Trust, honesty, affection and romance are the most important things in your marriage. These belong to both of you and you are entitled to be loved the way God intended it to be.

Give your marriage and love life a fresh start. Give life to your marriage, start romancing your spouse today. They will love you for it and you will stay in their mind.

Remember romance is much more than just flowers and candy.

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6-11-2010 Friday 8:14am Timothy Edward Wilhelm

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